Mike Schwartz 7629 W Kristal Way Glendale AZ 85308 (623) 561-1223 schwartz@acm.org Aug. 08, 1999 (w/PS Aug 15/16) Dear Friends and relatives, I have been meaning to write one of these for a long time, I regret that it has taken so long to get around to it. Since the internet is becoming more popular, I now have e-mail addresses for about half of you - or more. In fact, if I can manage to post this letter on the web (www) ("World Wide Web"), then I can probably just e-mail you the URL where I put it (kinda like a web address), and I can even economize on bits. If any of you get this message on paper, or by forwarding, and would like to (or, would not mind) providing your e-mail address so I could send it more directly next time, then please send to me at: mailto: schwartz@acm.org Among those that I wrote to via e-mail around the beginning of this year, among the speediest to [check their e-mail and] reply, were Danny Sterman and Janet Jo Sterman. Of course some of the readers of paper ["snail"] mail also replied, but the speediness is not as apparent there, because even if they turn around a reply within (say) an hour of when they get my letter on paper, it is still more like a week for the total round trip time. One of the big events since my last bulletin, is that I have been contacted via e-mail, by someone who I think is a distant ** relative of [my great grandfather] Avrom Fischel Sterman of Berdichev. Her name is Vera Sterman Kanas and her e-mail address is vsk@bcth.com.br ("Vera S. Kanas") ** that "distant" means, in more ways than one. The ".br' at the end of an e-mail domain name, means BRAZIL. I think she may be in Israel now so please be patient if your are writing to her. Most of you who are Stermans, probably have already seen an e-mail from her, if not sent directly to you, then at least a forwarded copy of the first e-mail message that she sent to us. She OK'd forwarding it, and I still have the original, so let me know if you need it. Actually maybe I will post it on the web, if there are no objections. My mother did get a new word processor. It sounds like it has a computer chip in it. (SSShhhh, don't anyone let on, but I wonder if it could be used to send/receive e-mail. Wouldn't want to upset anyone, now.) New Area Code ------------- As shown above, our new area code is (623). The old one still works until the end of August, but they recommend to start using this new one if you are going to call us. Jeremy in School Play --------------------- This spring Jeremy was in a school play. It was Neil Simon's "The Odd Couple, Female Version" so the main lead parts were for girls. There were two minor parts for guys, and Jeremy got one of them. Despite the fact that his close friend, Matt Lemm, (the talented magician) was going out for the same part. Matt had already had several major, [even lead] parts in other school plays. Anyway, Jeremy did well in the auditions. The role (Jesus - pronounced Hay Soose, or, sometimes, Hay Zoose) was a guy who is from Barcelona (pronounced lispily, with the letter after the 'r' pronounced as a 'th' sound). He had a Spanish accent. I tried to help Jeremy sound like someone with that kind of accent but Jeremy thought that I just sounded like Speedy Gonzales. (I was thinking, what is wrong with that?) The play was very funny, a comedy. There were 4 performances, of which I attended all but one. Bonni also attended all but one. Several of our friends, such as Jay Rivin and Shimon and Connie Zilversmit, went out of their way to go to the play. On Sat. night, the finale, all 4 of us were there (Melody attended all 4 performances!) and I video taped it. Unfortunately the sound was not very good on the tapes I made. I was not using a remote mike, or a directional microphone. We can understand the words on the tape, but that is partly because we all saw the play 3 to 4 times already. In person. Jeremy is signing up for drama class next year at school. He will be a junior (school starts a week from tomorrow). Melody will be attending the same [High] school as a freshman. Melody attends Camp Ramah ------------------------- This was Mel's second time to go to Camp Ramah in Calif. She was very happy to see a lot of the old friends that she already knew from last year. Also, in Mel's tent was a girl (2 years younger) named Katie, who is from the Phoenix area. They were on the same airplane, and got to sit next to each other on the bus between the Burbank, CA airport and the camp in Ojai, CA. Ojai is near Ventura. Bonni and I went to LA for the whole weekend when it was time for visitors' day. Jeremy stayed here, with his friend Matt Lemm. We got together with Bonni's friend Paula Sonkin, and her mother who happened to be visiting from Cleveland. On Sat. I went to services at Valley Beth Shalom. It was very nice. Honeywell Merger ---------------- Next month will be the 20-year anniversary of when I started my current job. Actually then it was Sperry Flight Systems, but since the end of 1986 we have been part of Honeywell. Honeywell is in the process of getting approval, and working out all of the arrangements, for a merger with another company ("Allied Signal"). The other company is actually bigger, so that they are expected to make up about 70% of the combined company. (Not that Honeywell is small!) Of the 2 company HQ buildings, they plan to close one (the Honeywell HQ in Minneapolis), and keep the other (The Allied Signal head- quarters building, in Morristown, NJ.) I think my friend Gershon Beck lives in Morristown. I just got the proxy statement in the mail, for the voting on Sept 1. The stockholders of both companies have to approve it, in order for the deal to go through. I think it will be approved. The news about this merger broke the exact weekend when we were in Texas for the big Lauren Baum bat mitzvah celebration. Trip to Texas ------------- We had been planning for over a year to spend June 4, 1999 in Houston along with all the other family and friends, congregating to observe the ceremonial and other events, for Lauren Baum's rite of passage. Bonni and Melody wanted to fly, but Jeremy was happy to have a chance to [help] drive, and I agreed, partly so we would not have to rent a car. Also, we only had to buy 2 plane tickets [not 4]. So Jeremy an I left early, May 31. We drove as far as El Paso. We stopped there, and checked in to a hotel - I think it was a Quality Inn. I took a walk, in the neighborhood, over to a mall nearby while Jeremy watched some kind of wrestling special [Monday Night Raw] on TV. Later Jeremy and I both took a walk over there, and got some food at a grocery store. The next morning we went out for breakfast, but Jeremy went back to sleep in his bed afterwards. I packed up all the stuff and loaded up the car, but I suspect that he had stayed up late watching TV, because he still wanted to sleep more. So I told him, he could continue his 'nap' in the car. We checked out of the motel and hit the road. East of El Paso there was some construction and in some places the roads were down to one lane [heading east]. So the traffic was required to go a bit slower than usual. After a while Jeremy took over and did some of the driving (so I could sleep). We had a bit of an incident in Balmorhea Texas (the exact bull's eye middle of no where) (see separate chapter for details). To make a long story short, no one was hurt, and we were only out a few bucks to get the car fixed, but we lost about 6 or 7 hours and did quite a bit a sweating in the heat. Incident in Balmorhea TX ------------------------ You can skip this chapter if you don't like the boring parts. At some point, around mile marker 201 or 202, the car went out of control and we went off the road to the right. This was on I-10 where the speed limit is pretty fast (65 I think). Jeremy apparently still could not get the brakes to function to stop the car. The car spun around (180) and went through some scrub bushes and eventually came to a stop. The left front tire was flat, and (as we later found out) there was something jammed in the brakes there, and the rim was damaged beyond repair. Some police men came by, and some other motorists made some phone calls for us. Some "street sweeper" trucks cam by and cleaned up some rocks from the shoulder of the road, before the officers eventually showed up to take the police report. This was June 1, 1999 in early afternoon. Eventually the police also gave us a ride to a sorta gas station /truck stop where we could use the phone. Also the men's room. Also, get a beverage. (I did, but think Jeremy passed up the opportunity). We called the AAA and they took down the information. The guy with the tow truck picked us up first from where we had called. He drove us to where the car was. Our car was so far off the road that he could not get the tow truck near it. He did manage to put the spare tire onto the car, but he had to use our jack, which, along with the spare, was way on the bottom. We had so much stuff in the trunk, because the girls had sent most of their luggage ahead with us, so they would not have to shlep it to / at the airport. Also, it was very hot an dusty, and the scrub brushes had stickers and thorns. Whatever had gotten in to our L front brakes apparently was still causing a problem, because after the spare was on, I drove the car about maybe 30 or 50 feet, to get back to the shoulder [side] of the road. (I-10). By the time I got there, we could all hear the L front tire going "PSSSSsssssssssss" and it was already about 1/2 way between flat and still OK. The guy with the tow truck suggested that if we were to hurry, we might be able to drive it to a place to repair the flat-tire (and, whatever else was wrong with that car!) before it got flat enough to not be driveable. I thought this was ridiculous, since we were miles from anything but desert. So finally the tow truck guy did put our car onto his truck - it was one of those platform kind where they use a winch and your whole car goes up onto the platform, and then none of your own tires are still touching the road. (Good!) He drove us in to the town of Balmorhea (not a very big town -- if your map has it, then in my humble opinion, it is a pretty good map.) The first place he took us to, was just a sorta gas-station type place, and Jeremy got a Gatorade there that was like $1.69 even though it was only about 16 oz. He gave me a sip. Boy were we thirsty. Eventually we got directions and went [about 1 block] to a car repair place called "Martin's" [as in, Chon Martinez being the owner? or other eponymous founder]. He fixed our flat tire, but then there was still something rubbing against it, but when we told him how it had gone flat in about a minute, he took it apart again and got some kind of rock or something out of the brakes. He also fixed several other minor things on our car, including one that required removing and re-installing the left rear time from its rim. At some point we had to wait for a long time, because he was radio-dispatched or something, to go fix something somewhere else for someone else. He told us about a motel about half a block down the street. We looked at a room, but told them that we were hoping to get out of town rather than spending the night. They did let us watch TV in the lobby (it was the day of a CNN news item about Merril Lynch deciding to make electronic trading available for their customers, over the internet or something like that. They interviewed lots of people about whether or not this would be good overall for Merrill Lynch. The gist of it, it seemed to me was, that even if this was not good, if they ignored the trend, then they would be history. That may be true. Eventually our car (the 1992 car with over 90,000 miles on it) was ready to go. I test-drove it, going up to full speed and it drove OK. Chon Martinez said he also had a detailing service and so he wanted to wash and wax the car too. It did really need it, but I was in a hurry and it's not as if the car were going to stay clean, over the next 500 miles or so. So I compromised, on paying him the extra $15.00 (which was well deserved) but just asking him to hose off the windows and not to much more. There was no place within 60 miles that we could get a rim to replace the one that was shot, so we basically had to drive that far (about an hour) on I-10 with, in essence, no usable spare. When we got to the next 'big' town (Fort Stockton) (this one probably is on your map, in most cases) we found the tire-fixing place and they started looking around town (by this time it was dark) to try to find a rim that would work. Meanwhile Jeremy went across the street to the Burger King and got some food and beverages to soothe his weary self. I for some reason was not very hungry. We phoned the girls a time or two in AZ, so they wouldn't worry about us. When the car was ready we got back in it and were determined to drive at least as far as Ozona. We did, and called the girls again, but we were not tired, and it was much nicer in the cool air now that it was night time. Jeremy for one, did a lot of sleeping while we were making good time. We got as far as a truck stop near Sonora or something like that, and slept (in the car) but only for a couple hours. After that it seemed like a good idea to go on ahead to Austin, and just sleep there (in the motel.) That is basically what we did. Since it was Wed. morning by the time we got to Austin, they only charged us for one night (Wed. night). We felt this was a good deal as it came with a free breakfast both days, and most of what we did on Wed (until about noon or so), was sleep in the beds there. Boy was that comfy. Trip to Texas - continued ------------------------- resume here if you skipped the part about our little mishap The girls were flying in to Austin (using the new airport) Thursday afternoon. We had reservations at a nice hotel, near the airport, that Bonni's brother recommended. And we had been invited over, by him and his wife, for dinner that night, at their house. Since the hotel provides a free shuttle to/from the airport, we just checked in there, get all the luggage in to the room, and left the car there and had them take us to the airport and wait for the girls. One of the guys we talked to, swimming in the pool at the hotel, had actually flown in to the "old" Austin airport, a few days (maybe a week or two) before. He was from Calif. I think he was supposed to return his rental car at the new airport, since it was now in use by all the major airlines there. I think they had some kind of provision for people who live in Austin, who had parked their cars at the old airport, and found themselves at the other one when they got back in town. So we got the girls, (Bonni and Melody) and the shuttle driver took us back to the hotel. It was very similar to the [beautiful] one in Houston that Bonni had selected as the HQ for out-of-town guests for the Lauren Baum rite and gala and reunion. Thurs. night we went over to the house of Mike Jacobs (Bonni's brother) and his wife Hanna (also known as Hania). We had a lovely dinner there, and talked, looked at pictures, etc. Fri. morning we were supposed to drive in to Houston. We didn't end up getting the car loaded up and some batteries purchased, etc., until late in the a.m. It was mid afternoon by the time we got to Houston so Bonni said not to stop off at Lauren's house. We just went to the hotel. We did see Kenny there, and some of the other relatives from up North etc. Fri. night was a charming dinner at the Temple, and then services. The food was delicious, provided by a caterer who I think is also a friend of the Baums. Photos galore were taken, including some with those one-use cameras, which Donna had very thoughtfully provided on each table. The Friday night services were very nice, they had my 2 sisters and brother and me, and my parents, up on the bima, not to mention some of Kenny's relatives, and a similar number from the [very prominent] family of the other Bat Mitzvah girl. The Oneg Shabbat (reception) afterwards was a big hit, I enjoyed seeing a lot of old friends, such as Irving and Bertie Wilson. Sat. morning Lauren [again] participated in leading the services, and did very well. We sat up near the front, where they have a special section for people of about Lauren's age, most of her friends were there. Then we went for lunch at a Chinese place near the Galleria. The speeches (started Fri. night) and photos, etc., continued even more. Then Sat. night was a big gala party at a country club. A good time was had by all. The food, and music, and games, and so on, were just remarkable. They got much of it on video tape, which I haven't seen yet, but I was there to see the original, so I am looking forward to an excellent tape when I do watch a copy of it. Sunday there was a brunch at Susan and Barry's house. Their yard looked very nice, I think they had just had it 'done' professionally. Andy was able to give some of the kids a ride, as he now has his drivers license. We stayed over at Andy and Lauren's house, and Monday did laundry. This was almost overdue for me and Jeremy, as we had been away for a week, and when we packed we had not planned on sweating out doors in the heat in the desert on Tues., for about 6 hours. Tuesday all 8 of us went to Galveston - Donna and Kenny and Andy and Lauren, and Bonni and I and Jeremy and Melody. We did not stay over night but a little time there was jam packed with fun. First we went swimming in the Gulf of Mexico. Then we went to the "Down Town" area for some shopping. Then we all went out to a pizza place that Kenny likes, going way back to the year when Kenny and his friend Aubrey spent the summer in Galveston. Some time after we got back, Jeremy spent one night sleeping over at Scott and Brian's house. He had a good time. Scott does not have his drivers' license yet. They wanted to go bowling but some of those kids (such as, Brian) are not good enough to bowl well, unless they use bumpers. I think they found a bowling alley that had some of those ('bumpers') available. I didn't go along that day (I think it was Thurs.) because that was the day I was getting together for lunch with Paul Hlavinka. But I think a good time was had by all, or perhaps most. Including Donna. Friday we left to drive to San Antonio, and picked up some bagels to take there. However, the driver's side window of the car kept opening when it was not supposed to, and we could not close it with the ordinary mechanism, we had to get someone (Jeremy) to push up on the glass from the outside with his hands. We were starting to get tired of having to pull over and do this every few minutes. Things eventually got severe when Jeremy got the idea (of trying to 'start over', I guess) by closing the window all the way. We were only about 1/2 hour outside of Houston, so we had a good 3 hours more of driving before we would get to San Antonio. In a way I am glad Jeremy did this. Now, there was No way, including manually, that we could close that window. Although the opening of the window, had been letting out "some" air conditioning before, and letting in some rain, now we really had no choice but to stop. We asked for directions, and the first place we came to only had one person there (it was a very big place but I guess everyone else was out to lunch) and none of us knew Spanish, and this guy seemed to not speak ANY English, so we started back, and asked a police man for advice. He directed us to a place located behind an old broken down gas station building. But the guy there did know what was wrong, and said he could fix it for $70. In fact, he even [eventually] determined that he could replace the part that was needed, if we were willing to wait a few hours. So we ended up losing a few hours and it cost close to $300, but we were back on the road in time to get to San Antonio while it was still light. With no air conditioning escaping and no rain coming in. I had not been so glad to have someone finish fixing the car, since June 1. Whoo. Bonni and the kids had walked back to the place near the interstate, and gotten some refreshments, etc. I had stayed with the car because all of our stuff was in it, and it could not be locked, since the window could not be closed. The heat was severe (no air conditioning) but they did have a big fan, and if one stayed in the shade it did help. What a relief to finally get to San Antonio, and top Bonni's parents' house. Sat. am. I went to services at the shul there. It is called Agudath Achim, the same name as the shul in Shreveport. They told us that, since there is also one by that name in some other town (Laredo?) that someone had said (jokingly?) that it must be a franchise. Sat. night we went out to eat with Bonni's sister Sue, and David, and their kids Jack and Halley. Also Bonni's parents. Jeremy wanted to go to the old San Francisco Steak House. We did. The next day we drove up to Austin (Sunday). We wanted to get together with Richard and Jackie Neuman but they were still very hectic from moving in to their new house (right near where Richard's parents live) (in West Lake Hills I think) so we just spoke to them on the phone, which was fine. We went out to eat. Since Jeremy and I had started to prefer driving at night, and since the girls would be flying home Monday (and could use the free shuttle from the hotel to get to the airport) Jeremy and I took off Sunday night and drove all the way home without stopping (in a motel). Actually, by the time we got to El Paso, I was tired, and it was getting to be the hot part of the day (noon-ish) Monday. But Jeremy (having done a lot of sleeping while I was driving) was nice and fresh and wanted to drive. So he drove all through New Mexico, and half of the part of Arizona that we had to cross. We stopped somewhere between Tucson and Phoenix to eat. Then I started driving. When we got in to town, I took a Freeway (The 'Squaw Peak Parkway') that had recently been extended, and now goes all the way to Bell Road (near our old house). We got off the road and phoned Melody from Chompies. Bonni was not home but she was only gone for a short time. She got home about the same time we did, Monday evening. Overall it was a very nice trip. Trip to LA July 9-11 -------------------- Visitors' day at Camp Ramah was July 11. We left Jeremy here with his friend Matt, but Thurs night before we left we offered to take them all out to dinner. Matt's Mom, and sister were supposed to join us too but they were unable to go so it was just the 5 of us, Matt, and his girl friend Emily (who is also his "Magician's Assistant") and Bonni and me, and Jeremy. We flew to Burbank, and rented a car. We went to the AAA to get a map, and had lunch near there Fri. Then we checked in. We stayed at the Beverly Garland (Holiday Inn) motel in N Hollywood. We had found it [their web page] on the internet. Overall it was a very nice hotel. One thing that did seem a little strange was, that in the bathroom there was a sign that said that they were in compliance with all LA County water conservation rules. This struck me as strange mainly because, in the shower, there was a way to control the temperature of the water, but no way to control the current (one size fits all -- the max.). Also, the toilet was one which flushed kinda slowly, and seemed to be using a lot of water. Our old house in AZ (which we still own) (built circa 1976) probably has toilets like that. However, the house we live in now (built circa 1989) has toilets that flush very quickly, and only use about a gallon or so of water per flush. So, my thinking is, that those LA County water conservation regulations, might be from before about 1989 or so - - in fact, maybe that *sign* is from quite a few years ago! We had a good time getting together with Paula Sonkin, and her mother. Sat. night we went out with them, and with some others (Pat and Linda). We even brought Paula some copies of the business section of the Thursday newspaper from Phoenix (The AZ Republic) because it had an article (starting on the bottom half of the front page of the business section) about house builders here etc., and it quoted Paula Sonkin by name, and it had some charts and graphs with data provided by JD Powers and Associates, which I think is who Paula works for. Sunday we drove to the camp and saw all the kids. Melody was having a great time and getting along well with her tent mates, including one (Katie) from Phoenix, and at least 3 (Blair, Alexis, and Denise) who see each other all year round, and attend the same Sunday School (with a 'Special Ed.' dept.) at Valley Beth Shalom in Encino. We did see some of the parents (and kids) that we recognized from last year. I also saw not only Rhonda and Sheldon Kottle (so far not too big of a surprise), but also Glen Yago (who lives in LA but I think his parents live in AZ) (Scottsdale) and also Gilbert Shearer (who lives in Seattle but sent 3 daughters to Camp Ramah in Calif.!) Glen and Gilbert were in the same HS class (C E Byrd 1968) with Michael Renov and me, and they are both cousins of Sheldon Kottle and Gail [K] Scharf. Gail's youngest son (Reed) is all set for his bar mitzvah celebration here in Phoenix (at our shul, Beth El) in about a month. Right around the time of the Jewish New Year. I think Michael Renov, who lives in LA, must have been out of town or something. I did not see him. On the way back we stopped for gas, and to eat, in Woodland Hills. But after that we came to a traffic jam (log jam!) on the freeway, due to an accident, and almost didn't make it to the airport, to return the car and get on the plane in time. However, our plane was delayed, so we needn't have worried. We did get home OK, but just bit late. Thanks to everyone who wrote to Melody while she was at camp. Including Auntie Donna, who even sent some photos from the big family reunion in Texas the previous month. Other News ---------- Yesterday Andy got some new Reebok shoes to use for tennis, at the outlet mall in Sealy. This weekend they are having sales (and a "no sales tax" weekend) in Texas. Tomorrow he is to have all 4 of his wisdom teeth extracted or amputated or whatever it is. He will have a week to recover from that before school starts. He is also still waiting to see if he gets accepted to "Strake", an exclusive private school that he applied to. If he does get in, it will probably be due partly to the 4.0 grade-point average that he achieved recently. Donna said that today would be his last day [at least for a while] working at Alby's. That is what I call Albertson's. That is a store that is close to Andy's house. Donna reports that Danny Sterman's wife Jamine is expecting twins. I think she said that they were to be due in Feb. [...] Ooops, correction: later on, Janet Jo forwarded a recent e-mail from Jamine which says that the twins (1 boy, 1 girl) are to be due Feb. 16, 2000. Mazel Tov. Uneven Coverage --------------- I was in a hurry to type up this letter, partly because I have already been procrastinating so long, I did not want to let it go any longer. I know I may have devoted a lot of words to some parts that you find disappointing. If so feel free to call or write us, and we may not be able to even out the coverage, but perhaps we can compensate for the imbalance, and maybe partly by taking some advice from you, the readers. Thanks to everyone who called or wrote last time, you know who you are, and it is appreciated. Melody got a nice letter from her "buddy" from camp, and she wrote a note to send to some of her friends. It was very short compared to this. Looking forward to hearing from some of you, Keep well, love, Mike. "PS:" Sunday Aug 15 1999: I saw Reed Scharff in shul yesterday, and his picture was already in our shul bulletin, because his bar mitzvah celebration is coming up. Both his brother and sister (from Shreveport) were honored yesterday, Erin for the 4th anniversary of becoming a bat mitzvah, and Spencer doing the prayer for Peace (2 years after becoming a bar mitzvah). My mother was telling me something about her friend Dorothy [Davison] (probably about her being a docent at the museum) and I asked which Dorothy, and she did give me a bit of news about Dorothy Rosenfeld (from Shreveport). She said she just got a letter recently from Carol Ginsburg, saying that Dorothy R. had a heart attack and had to have a bypass operation. Today I mowed the lawn and put a new light bulb into the light over our front door - which we leave on all night. I went over to Don and Sally Rosenbloom's house to help them get their computer set up. They moved about 5 years ago, this is my first time to visit since their previous house. I brought some bagels from Chompies and we had a little brunch too. One of their daughters just got married June 12 (while we were in Texas), they showed me the photos. On the way home I bought some nectarines and lamb chops, and even got some lamb tongues. I thought Jeremy would like them. Jeremy cooked some "Rice Krispie Treats" to take along with his lunches to school. He and Melody will both be going to the same high school starting tomorrow. My car went past 100,000 today. All my cars have done so, but, in the past, they always went back to zero. This [1992] car actually has a digit there for 100,000. "Red Letter day." Monday Aug 16 1999: Today I downloaded micro-av ("FreeAccessSetup.exe"). Jeremy got a job working at the new grocery store. It opens Wed.