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How to get a guy.

Okay, Lovelorn, here's my advice:

First of all, guys adore attention, so the best flirt tactic is simply to look them straight in the eye and smile.  A little compliment, like "What a nice shirt," can really go a long way, too!  Strike up a conversation using your strengths:  if you're funny, tell a joke.  Guys love a bold girl.  Show interest in what he has to say and shoot back some ideas of your own.  Keep your body language friendly -- don't cross your arms, and maybe touch his arm lightly as you talk.  Remeber, this is the year 2000, and if you want a boyfriend, don't be afraid to ask someone out yourself.

                -- Heidi.

Heidi,

I need some help right now.  I am a friendly girl and have a very positive attitude, but I haven't had a boyfriend in... well, let's just say a long time.  I'm not very good at flirting -- could this be the problem?  I know this is a problem many teenagers face, but it really sucks.  Please give me some guy-grabbing advice.

       -- Lovelorn & miserable.

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