Society
German habits/traditions
Do you want to find your ancestors or relatives in Germany and don't know
who?
Most of the Americans seem to associate Germany with Bavaria but this
is just a part of Germany. In Bavaria you can find leather-trousers, dirndel,
Schuhplattler, one liter glasses of beer (Maßkrüge), Brezeln,
the Oktoberfest
here some links:
Neuschwanstein, blue-white flags, ... and these are the things Americans
seem to connect with German and Germany. (I don't want to say that there
are other Americans who know much about Germany - probably more then I
know)
Because until the beginning of the 19th century Germany was divided
up into several small countries there are a lot of different traditions
and habits all over the country. Besides you can find a lot of different
dialects.
The region I come from is Westphalia.
Do you know any traditions, products, specials from this area?
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Pumpernickel
(a special kind of very dark bread)
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westphalian ham
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Korn (schnapps)
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Sauerbraten (sour pork with raisins or was that rheinisch?)
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our dialect: Plattdeutsch (Low-German)
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Wedding Traditions
You want a German marriage or just know more about German Wedding Traditions?
Wedding Traditions in Germany differ from region to region. Here are
some of the highlights:
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Polterabend - this is an unformal (unformal dress and food) party at the
evening before the wedding where plates and dishes are smashed (the broken
pieces are thought to bring good luck to the bride). The bride and groom
have to clean up everything.
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Rice - after the weeding when the bride leaves the church, friends throw
rice on them and it is said that they will get as many children as rice
grains stay in the hair of the bride
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Kidnapping of the bride - in some areas (mostly in small villages) friends
kidnap the bride and the groom has to find her. Normally, he has to search
in a lot of pubs and invite all people in there (or pay the whole bill).
Sometimes this ritual ends badly.
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Veil Dance - this is a popular game for a wedding evening. Every woman
or man who wants to dance with the groom or bride has to pay for it.
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Wedding Shoes - another tradition is to collect pennies for years and buy
wedding shoes for the bride with this money
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White ribbon - the bride carries a lengths of white ribbon with her bouquet,
after the church ceremony and the guests are leaving the church, she hands
each driver a ribbon that they tie to the radio antenna.
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Dance - the first dance is danced by the bride and the groom, it is traditionally
a waltz. The next dance is only for bride with her father and groom with
mother, while bride's mother dances with groom's father.
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Germans wear wedding rings on the right hand - the groom and the bride
have normally identical rings (wedding "bands" no diamonds)
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Flowers - besides the flowers of the bride and in church the hood of the
wedding car is decorated with lots of flowers
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Car Procession - after the wedding a car procession is formed and drives
through town honking their horns - others honk back wishing the couple
good luck
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Junggesellenabschied - some weeks before the wedding the groom and his
male friends go to a pub or sometimes other places to drink and have fun
(the last time?)
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The first night - to make the first night as difficult as possible friends
of the couple do lots of funny or sometimes cruel things. They fill up
the all rooms with balloons, hide lots of alarm clocks in the bedroom,
take apart the bed, and so on
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Wedding Evening - at the wedding evening a lot of games are played, speeches
are hold (the first normally from the father of the bride), sometimes a
wedding newspaper is handed out. songs are sung, and so on
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Costs - the father of the bride has to pay the wedding. This is an old
custom but today normally both parents and the couple itself divide the
costs for the wedding
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Wedding Cake - the wedding cake, mostly a large cake with lots of ornaments
has to be cut by the bride and the groom together
Christmas in Germany
Special
German Christmas Gifts
Christmas in Germany is very traditional. The preparation for this special
feast begins with the advent season. In this time you will find a lot of
advent calendars (with 24 small doors to open and some chocolate or pictures
or other goodies behind) in German homes especially for children. Others
pack 24 small presents and give them to a beloved person. Another thing
which have to be done before christmas is the purchase of a christmas tree
(it is mostly a fir or pine). In most German cities you will find some
kind of Christmas markets where you can buy Christmas ornaments and lots
of other things (Christmas cards, wooden things, ...) and eat sausages,
baked potatoes, ... and certainly get mulled claret.
Christmas itself starts at Christmas Eve (24.). On this day shops are
open until noon (to buy the last presents). Each family does it a little
bit differently. Some first go to church and then give eachother their
Christmas presents, have a great dinner together (on Christmas Eve it is
often carp), sing Christmas songs and so on. Other families wait for the
first Christmas Day (25.) to change presents. The second Christmas Day
(26.) is also a holiday in Germany. A typical meal for this day is goose
(as for Saint Martin). So you have three days of beeing together with your
family and eating, drinking, talking.
Picture
from Klaus Ibold
Karneval (Fastnacht/Carnival) in Germany
Karneval is not all over Germany. You will find it mostly near the Rhine
especially in Cologne, Mainz, Düsseldorf. It is a special kind of
happiness and not all Germans like it. Nevertheless, in the special Karneval
season between Weiberfastnacht and Ash Wednesday (Aschermittwoch) you will
find Karneval everywhere in the news and on TV.
In a lot of cities there will be a Karneval parade - the biggest are
in Cologne, Mainz and Düsseldorf but there are many more.
Easter in Germany
Easter is on of the highest feasts of the catholic church (the highest
is pentecost - thanks Alexander). But what you might know about German
Easter are the various Easter eggs out of chocolate or other good things.
Another tradition is the Easter Fire which you will find nearly everywhere
in Germany.
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German Food
You probably know some famous German food like Weisswurst, Brezeln, Schweinebraten,
Sauerkraut, ... but there is much more and each region has its special
food. But as in other countries you will find a lot of foreign restaurants
in Germany mostly Greek, Italian or Chinese but also Turkish, American
and so on.
Today there are a lot of vegetarians in Germany but it is still
difficult to find a vegetarian restaurant.
What can you find on a typical German Menu?
Dining in Germany can be very different. But if you go to a German restaurant
you will probably find some of the things I tried to explain in the following
table.
Suppen - Soups
Tomatensuppe - Tomato Soup
Ochsenschwanzsuppe - Oxtail Soup
Hühnersuppe - Chicken Soup
Gulaschsuppe - Goulash Soup (sometimes hot)
Zwiebelsuppe - Onion Soup
Kartoffelsuppe - Potato Soup |
Salat - Salad
Gemischter Salat - Mixed Salad
Tomatensalat - Tomato Salad
Gurkensalat - Cucumber Salad
Kartoffelsalat - Potato Salad
Gemüse - Vegetables
Sauerkraut - Sour Cabbage
Rotkraut/-kohl - Red Cabbage
Nachtisch/Dessert - Dessert
Gemischtes Eis - Ice Cream
Kuchen - Cake
Bienenstich - creamy custard filled cake with almond glaze topping
Apfelkuchen - Apple Pie
Käsekuchen - Cheese Cake
Obsttorte - Flan
Schwarzwälderkirschtorte - Black Forest Cake
Sacher Torte - Dark Chocolate Cake (Austrian)
Schokoladentorte - Chocolate Cake
Apfelstrudel - Applestrudel (Austrian) |
Meals
Bratwurst - different styles: Nürnberger (very small ones), Thüringer
(my favourite), Weißwürste (white veal bratwurst)
Schnitzel Natur - Cutlet
Wiener Schnitzel - breaded Cutlet (originally veal in Germany usually
pork)
Jägerschnitzel - Cutlet with a mushroom sauce
Zigeunerschnitzel - Cutlet with a spicy paprika sauce
Rahmschnitzel - Cutlet with heavy cream
Kassler Rippchen - Smoked Pork Chops
Gulasch - Goulash
Schweinebraten - Roast Pork
Rouladen - Rolled Beef
Sauerbraten - Marinated Beef or Pork (sour)
Kalbsleber - Calf's Liver (Berlin style with fresh Apples and Onion
slices)
Zwiebelbraten - Onion Roast
Filetsteak
Hähnchen - Chockerel
Ente - Duck
Hasenbraten - Roast Hare
Rehrücken - Roast Deer (?)
Hirschragout - Ragout of Hart
Spätzle - German style egg noodles
Kartoffelpuffer - Potato Pancakes
Kartoffelbrei - Mashed Potatoes
Salzkartoffeln - Boiled Potatoes
Pommes Frites - French Fries (short form: Pommes)
Knödel/Klöße - Dumpling (Kartoffelknödel - Potato
Dumpling)
Semmelknödel - Bread Dumpling |
Getränke - Beverages/Drinks
Bier (Pils, Export, Altbier, Kölsch, Weizen) - Beer
Alsterwasser
Radler - Beer with Sprite
Altbierbowle
Wein - Wine
Cola - Coke
Fanta
Sprite
Orangensaft - Orange Juice
Apfelsaft - Apple Juice
Apfelschorle - half Apple Juice half Mineral Water
Mineralwasser - Mineral Water
Kaffee - Coffee
Tee - Tea |
In Germany the price of your meal already includes the taxes and the
tip. However if you enjoyed a fine meal and a not too bad service (you
probably won't find the same great service as in the US) you should add
a little bit extra to the bill (pay 45 DM instead of 43.20 DM). If you
are a student or do not earn money by your own, you can go without tipping.
Moreover, it is regular to round up the amount payable (pay 12 DM instead
of 11.80 DM).
German Wine
Mostly in southern Germany you can find a lot of wine (Riesling, Silvaner,
Müller-Thurgau, Geürztraminer ...)
German Beer
You know that we Germans love our own beer but it is also pretty famous
throughout the world. Here I have listed some interesting Websites about
German beer (unfortunately most of them are in German):
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