1. I am not good enough to do anything
2. I have no money and won't get any until my grandparents die.
3. My girlfriend is not "the one".
4. Going to Canada is the best thing I could be doing right now for myself and my spiritual development.
5. Peet has too many troubles right now to be able to handle another person.
6. I cannot go to Canada because I have no means of supporting myself over there and Peet can't afford to carry me.
7. The woman I am going to marry does not live in South Africa.
8. My destiny does not lie in South Africa.
9. I want a family, I want to be a father and a husband.
10. I know I will be good at both.
