Commitment. In the past few months, I have been watching poeple around me--young people, people my age--making commitments...My friends are getting engaged, getting married..and this drives me up the wall...this may stem from the fact that I have a huge fear of the C-word, but it seems to me that making such a commitment at such a young age is a silly thing....I don't condemn them for what they are doing..far from it...I am happy that they are happy and in love, blah blah blah....but personally, the idea of me getting married now is laughable. I have school, I have work, I have other things that come way before falling in love and getting married...the idea of staying with one guy, forever...having kids...ugh...thats not in the stars for me for a long, long time...
I don't even really want a boyfriend right now, for heavens sakes...I mean, I have someone I like, but we aren't in a relationship...we're just having a good time...at least, when we see each other, because he lives kinda far away...
I think that people should live together before they get married...thats what Steve and Beth did, and I think its a really good idea...that way, you get to know the person, because you are spending all your time with them...and that way, you can find out if you can live together before you get married...the divorce rate is high enough in this country...get used to each other before you get hitched....
OK, enough of my rants for now...if you agree, or disagree with what I have said, let me know...just mail me Click Here to Comment