Birth Order and Personality


I have to admit, right here and now, that I'm
addicted to personality typing! I've found a lot of info
on the subject on the web, but, oddly enough, there's not a
whole lot about a theory of personality that's been very
popular lately: birth order. While I don't think it's a a
completely accurate theory, it does have some valid points
and besides, it's interesting! So I've put a list of
different birth order types and their characteristics here on
my page. Enjoy!
FIRSTBORNS:
  • perfectionists
  • achievement-oriented
  • reach for impossible goals
  • value themselves by what they do
  • often get depressed and give up
  • devastated by failure
  • remember mistakes and dwell on them
  • can only live with being number one
  • competitive; life is a contest
  • hate criticism
  • have to win to keep high self-esteem
  • reliable
  • conscientious; can be everybody's rescuer
  • make lists
  • well-organized
  • critical
  • intolerant and impatient (especially with those they live with)
  • serious
  • scholarly
  • get too involved in too many things with little time for self
  • pleases; needs to learn how to say "no"
  • high expectations for themselves
  • goal-oriented
  • ask a lot of questions
  • want lots of details
  • cautious
  • careful
  • usually get the most discipline
  • think clearly
  • have excellent memories
  • "forgiving" is not a strong suit
  • often have trouble sharing thoughts and feelings
  • learn the hard way
  • stubborn
  • high need for approval
  • get along with authority figures
  • very "uptight"
    FAMOUS FIRSTBORNS:
  • Charles Manson
  • Juliet Hulme
  • Cher
  • Queen Elizabeth II
  • Douglas Adams
  • President Clinton
  • Agnetha Faltskog
  • Isaac Hanson
  • Anissa Jones
  • Richard Carpenter
  • Natasha Gregson Wagner
  • Gwyneth Paltrow
  • Margaret Cho
  • David Nelson
  • Caroline Kennedy Schlossberg
  • Christina Crawford
  • Leif Garrett
  • Carrie Fisher
  • Princess Caroline of Monaco
  • Ted Bundy
  • Frederick Douglass
  • Jeffrey Dahmer
  • Lindsay Lohan
  • Wynonna Judd
  • Mark Mathabane
  • Mary Bell
  • Shania Twain
  • Melissa Joan Hart
  • Melissa Gilbert
  • Alyssa Milano
  • Cain
    SECOND-BORN (OF TWO CHILDREN):
  • often referred to as "try harder kids"
  • exhibit extreme personality difference from the older one
  • may rebel to find his/her own place
  • demand less of their parents' attention than the older sibling
  • friendly
  • flexible
  • rarely concerned with rules and regulations
  • if older sibling is perceived as inept, may usurp his/her role
    FAMOUS SECOND-BORNS:
  • Kristy McNichol
  • Patricia Krenwinkel
  • Roger Clinton
  • Fran Drescher
  • Karen Carpenter
  • Soleil Moon Frye
  • Princess Margaret
  • Claire Danes
  • Ricky Nelson
  • JFK, Jr.
  • Desi Arnaz, Jr.
  • Dawn Lyn
  • Ashley Judd
  • Elijah Blue Allman
  • Sara Gilbert
    MIDDLE CHILDREN:
  • mediator
  • negotiator
  • avoids conflict
  • peace-makers
  • fewest pictures in family album
  • contradictory nature
  • sociable, yet loners
  • friendly, yet quiet
  • outgoing, yet shy
  • impatient and easily frustrated, yet laid back
  • competitive, yet easygoing
  • rebel, yet is the family peacemaker
  • aggressive, yet avoids conflict
  • compromise
  • independent
  • most secretive of the children
  • least likely to seek professional help
  • extremely loyal to peer group
  • have many friends in many places
  • prone to embarrassment, but will never admit it
  • life is always "unfair"
  • balanced
  • often manifests either strongest or weakest personality in family
  • not used to much attention-attention and compliments embarrass
    FAMOUS MIDDLE CHILDREN:
  • Pauline Parker
  • Sharon Stone
  • Harriet Beecher Stowe
  • Susan Atkins
  • Taylor Hanson
  • Donny Osmond
  • Prince Charles
  • Natalie Wood
  • Johnnie Whitaker
  • the Dionne Quintuplets
  • Madonna
  • Michael Jackson
  • Grace Kelly
  • Louie Anderson
  • Norma Bell
  • Marilu Henner
  • Stella McCartney
  • Tennessee Williams
    YOUNGEST CHILDREN:
  • love the limelight
  • outgoing charmers
  • affectionate
  • charming
  • uncomplicated
  • at times absent-minded
  • "a little different"
  • precocious
  • likely to be a clown or entertainer, but want to be taken seriously
  • carefree
  • vivacious
  • perceptive
  • "people persons"
  • quick to blame others
  • good salesperson
  • engaging
  • live with ambivalence
  • can be messy
  • struggle with self-centeredness
  • independent
  • least likely to be disciplined
  • often feel that nothing that they do is important
  • have a hard time getting things straight
  • lovable manipulators
  • like to be taken care of if kept "the baby"
  • least organized of the birth orders
    FAMOUS YOUNGEST CHILDREN:
  • Princess Stephanie of Monaco
  • Celine Dion
  • Crown Prince Alexei of Russia
  • Janet Jackson
  • Charles Watson
  • Candace Cameron
  • Marie Osmond
  • Rory Kennedy
    ONLY CHILDREN:
  • reliable
  • conscientious
  • super-conservative
  • achievement-oriented
  • may have difficulty sharing/compromising
  • typically get along better with younger or older children
  • stubborn and uncooperative if accustomed to getting his/her own way
  • paradoxically, the majority of them grow up to be either
    independent and self-sufficient or helpless and dependent
    FAMOUS ONLY CHILDREN:
  • Candice Bergen
  • Christina Applegate
  • Chelsea Clinton
  • LeAnn Rimes
  • John the Baptist
  • Howard Stern
  • John Lennon
  • Lenny Kravitz
  • Phil Lynott
  • Jay Leno
  • Chynna Phillips
  • China Kantner