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My girlfriend broke up with me on Oct 2000 stating it was a rebounded relationship. She also stated that I could not give her what she wanted. I agreed to move out to give her space and time like she stated. We were together for 3 years. Mary was married for 13 years and has 2 kids and she wanted out of the marriage. She lived with him until she got the divorce in feb of 98. I thought everything was going right. Mary had a hystermocy in Oct of 99 and still has her ovaries. She also had jaw surgery, shoulder surgery and Mary also is bipolar. When I talked to her in Nov she wanted to be friends. Then I talked to her about 8 days later in Nov and she was happy to hear from me but kinda down. I asked her if she wanted to get together and she stated to call her on Nov 20th but then I get an email on Monday stated it is not best to see each other till 6 months from now. Then I sent her flowers late in Nov and she called to Thank me. Then I called her on Dec 19th and wrote in a card stating about a face to face meeting if I am wasting my time. SHe stated she is not ready yet and she has emotional problems(in which everybody has stated to me that she needs time)and I told her I love her and she really could not answer stating she has problems right now. True I do admit that I did neglect her in ways that was not right by not completing her, saying I love her, not going out enough, not enough quality time together. I did admit that in my 2 page letter when I sent the flowers. I am wondering do you think I have lost her in getting her back. I do call her every 10-14 days or so to see how she is doing. I did send her x-mas gift and also for her kids but there was no call from her or a thank you. I did not except it either. What more can I do. I do miss her and love her... signed Whtelightn |
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