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One Friend
I always thought you were the best
I guess I always will.
I always felt that we were blessed,
And I feel that way, still.
Sometimes we took the hard road,
But we always saw it through.
If I had only one friend left,
I'd want it to be you.
Sometimes the world was on our side;
Sometimes it wasn't fair.
Sometimes it gave a helping hand;
Sometimes we didn't care.
'Cause when we were together,
It made the dream come true.
If I had only one friend left,
I'd want it to be you.
Someone who understands me,
And knows me inside out.
And helps keep me together,
And believes without a doubt,
That I could move a mountain:
Someone to tell it to.
If I had only one friend left,
I'd want it to be you.
All ABout Love
Somebody once told me that "Finding the right
person is very hard and very wrong...it is best
to be the right person for the one you love and
start from there... you'll always end up
disappointed when you set standards and
define a "right person" for you...and don't rush
things.... coz somewhere somehow God is
preparing somebody for you." You can never
be perfect...the person you love can never be
perfect...but both of you can be perfect through
love and prayers, and your love can be perfect
through the both of you. But, no relationship is
complete without God... that's why we have
marriage. It's a bond not only between you and
your loved one.... but also with God. Our
relationships fail not because (s) he's not the
right person.... it's because we expected too
much and we decided on our own.... let God do
the work...you may call it waiting time.... but
while you are waiting...pray. Let God guide you
always...He knows better. No, He knows best.
Love is not what you think it is.... Sometimes
we mistakenly feel that our first relationship will
be our last. Because we are overwhelmed with
joy and romance, we forget to learn the
meaning of true love. Some are saying that
love is unselfish, blind, and unconditional or
simply denying oneself for the sake of
someone very important in our life. Others are
saying love is immortal and can never be
defined. When we think we're in love the first
thing we almost wanted the whole world to
know is that our love for someone very special
can never be taken away from us. We say this
phrase "You are the most wonderful gift from
GOD I have ever received..." After a terrible
fight or sometimes even a petty quarrel we then
say, "You are the biggest mistake I've ever
made for my entire life...". Now, how do you
say and spell the word L-O-V-E? Are you really
deeply into it?. Nobody can tell what love really
is until experience speaks and whispers right
into our ears. Most of the time, these love
promises like "Forever, Till Death do us apart,
etc." would end up "Never" and "We should part
ways, I'm no longer happy with you! My love for
you is DEAD!!!" Many times we thought after
having committed to someone and your trust to
one another freezes down to zero degree "S/He
ain't the right one. I should probably wait for the
right one to come." But the big question anyone
could not answer is "Is she/he the right one?"
and "When is the right time?" That made us
stick to whom we are with. Will you always be
waiting for the right person to come and the
right time to commit? A big YES is the answer.
Don't be in a hurry to get into a relationship
because you can never find love if you insist
that you are already into it. Try to find time to
really understand your real feelings, to know
who you really are, and what you really want in
a relationship. You're right, there is no such
thing as a perfect relationship, but there's a
compatible partnership that goes along with it.
If you already knew that you're too big to fit into
a small sized t-shirt, don't give it a try. You'll
probably break it and pay for the damages you
have made. If you knew and felt that the
relationship will not last, don't go deeper into it.
You'll just suffer the consequences and live like
hell the rest of your life. It's really hard to say
goodbye though, but you can't make it any
better by just pretending you still have the
same feelings. Try to let go and give yourself a
chance to live life to the fullest. Give yourself a
chance to grow and give your heart a much-
needed attention. Then you will find that you
have made the right decision and you made it
all by yourself. More frequently than not, we all
act in a hypocritical manner for some reason.
We call it love when we can't leave someone
and see them crying as we try to let go. We
are wrong, its just pity. We call it love when
we're too attached and think that losing the one
we love will somehow make us weak and
unable to face the storms of life. We
misunderstood; it's just that we're too much
dependent to them. We call it love when we
give our whole life to them, the wholeness of us
and imagined that if they leave no one would
accept us and our past. We are mistaken, its
just insecurity. But no matter what the definition
is, the truth still remains that love isn't
something you can buy nor beg. It is real and
existing. You can't touch it but you can feel it in
your heart. You can't find it, but it will knock
before you when you least expect it to come. It
can make you the happiest soul in heaven, but
don't forget that it also can make you the most
miserable person in the whole galaxy.
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