I waited 22 years before I lost my virginity; now I am waiting for
love. I am not your average gay male. I don’t want hookups.
I want a boyfriend, but I don’t need one. With that philosophy I
am able to be picky. I understand I am not the hottest tamale, but
just like the guys who pass me over because I am not their type I do the
same. Only difference is I don’t pass guys over because they are
not physically what I desire ONLY. Yes physical attractiveness is
a major factor in a relationship, but so are compassion, conversation,
and lots of other things. If I can’t either hold a conversation with
you or you can’t understand my sense of humor then you and I both need
to build a bridge and get over it. Everyone has a certain ideal dream
person they want to walk into their lives and sweep them off their feet.
Mine would be a mature-minded masculine man in his 20s or 30s who is 5ft
10inches or taller, average to muscular build (a lil buddha belly is a
turn-on), who likes doing the same things that I described in previous pages,
and willing to show me more of what I am missing. I want a guy who is going
to have a life outside of me, but will make time for me. If you wanna hang
out with your friends, cool; but don't think I need to spend every waking
moment with you. I want a guy secure enough to handle me still being
able to go shopping and to the movies alone sometimes and not cause an
argument. When the time comes that we should want to spend every waking moment together, then we discuss moving in.
I want my partner to be the guy that I think is hot or gorgeous looking whether anyone else thinks so or not doesn't matter as long as I do, but when I talk to him his personality makes him so attractive I can't stop thinking about him. I tend to like guys who come from tight families. These are the guys that you can bring home to mom and mom wants to adopt him. I hate drama, and really hate guys who bring drama my way. A little bit of drama is healthy; a truckload and I am heading for the door. I like to watch drama not live it, so all you guys who feel the need to create it do it with someone else. I would also like to date someone at least 50 miles from me. Anyone further would be problematic at best.
My idea of a perfect first date would be at a movie (that I haven't
already seen). Then we would go to dinner and talk about ourselves, the
movie, and anything else. It would conclude with him driving me home, a
goodnight kiss, and arrangements to go on another date...
Ten years from now I want a loving faithful husband, at least two well-behaved kids, a quiet dog, a domesticated cat, the sturdy white picket fence, and supportive friends to share it all with. My career will come second by
that point because I will have worked my way to happiness already. Isn't
that what the 20's are for?
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