I've learned that we dont have to change friends, if we understand that friends change! I've learned that no matter how good a friend is they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that! I've learned that true friendship continues to grow, even over long distance! Same goes for true love! I've learned that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for the rest of your life! I've learned that it takes a long time to become the person that I want to be! I've learned that you should always leave loved one with loving words. It might be the last time that you see them! I've learned that you can keep going, even when you think that you can't! I've learned we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel! I've learned that either you control your attitude or it controls you! I've learned that no matter how hot and steamy a relationship is at first the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place! I've learned that heros are the people who do what has to be done regardless of the consequences! I've learned that money is a lousy way of keeping score! I've learned that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and still have a good time! I've learned that the people that you expect to kick you while you are down, will be the ones to help you get back up! I've learned that sometimes when I am angry, I have the right to be angry. But, I don't have the right to be cruel! I've learned that just because someone doesn't love you the way that you want them to doesn't mean that they don't love you with all that they have! I've learned that maturity has more to do with what type of experiences you have had and what you have learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you have celebrated! I've learned that it isn't always enought to be forgiven by others.  Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself! I've learned that no matter how bad your heart has been broken, the world doesn't stop for your grief! I've learned that our back grounds and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who become! I've learned that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean that they don't love each other, and just because they dont argue, doesn't mean that they do! I've learned that you shouldn't be so eager to learn a secret. It could change your life forever!  I've learned that two people can look at the exact thing and see something totally different! I've learned that your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people that don't even know you! I've learned that when you think that you have no more to give that when a friend calls upon you for help that you find the strength to help! I've learned that credentials on a wall does not make you a decent human being! I've learned that the people that you care the most about , are taken away far too soon!

What I"ve learned