Almost everyone has issues that would be best let go of, be it a relationship, a hurt, a negative emotion or a past event. This is a very general article, as always, take only from it what is fitting for you.

 

I should add that I am in no way a professional in any capacity (Jack of all trades, master of none :0)) so the following is my own creation, not to be presented as *professional advice*.

 

Pull up a chair, take your shoes off and enjoy :0)

Rowyn

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THE FINE ART OF LETTING GO

 

Loose the Sugar Coating...

Love and Fear...

Great Expectations...

Practicalities...

Let Go To God...

Living Our Truth...

Sources...

 

The Fine Art Of Letting Go

 

Let it go. Turn it over. Acceptance and

surrender. That nagging little nervous tickle

right smack dab in the pit of your stomach. The

oppressive fog that weighs on your every

movement,separating you from your Self and

your sense of your own Destiny. Those nagging

voices in your head that have become so

familiar that you don’t even notice them anymore.

Take a deep breath. Open the door..

 

LOOSE THE SUGAR COATING

 

  Gather your courage, peel back the layers

and take a good look. Go with it. Follow it

through. Cultivate the garden that is your life.

Start small. Dig, dig, dig. Go back to the

beginning. Find the seed, the space in time

before the root took hold. In the end, you will

find it comes down to only two things.

 

LOVE AND FEAR

 

Questions, questions and more questions.

Answer your questions. Question your answers.

 

"What am I afraid of?"

"I am afraid because.."

 

Take responsibility for your fear. Roll in it,

embrace it, immerse your whole Self in it.

Imagine the worst it can be, then deal with it in

your mind. Or accept it. Locate the place in

your body where fear lives. Focus on it, make

it large. Go into it, play with it. Face it. You

are no longer a victim of fear. Release it.

Find peace.

 

GREAT EXPECTATIONS

 

Look very closely at your expectations.

Expectations many times lead us to feel the need

to be in control. Most people and most things

are beyond our control, so loosing our

expectations is a good place to start. Don’t be

disappointed. Let go of attachments to outcome.

Let whatever is to be..BE.

Give it up. Enjoy this moment. How can you

control what has yet to be, or what has already

been.

 

 

PRACTICALITIES

You’ve gone as far as you can. Now what?

You’ve found it, you’ve faced it. You’ve fussed

with it. But it’s still there.

Hmmm.. What can you do?

 

Two heads are better than one! Share.

Be it writing to yourself, a friend or a complete

stranger. Talk to someone close to you or with a

professional who can help you to pinpoint key

issues. Pray. In these days of the Internet

newsgroups, email and websites - there are

marvelous ways to get in touch with others of a

like mind and your Self in the bargain! Share

what you learn.

 

Laugh and the world laughs with you!

Loosen up. Rent a funny movie and laugh out

loud. Laugh at yourself. See the world through

a child’s eyes. Give someone a smile.

 

Let ‘er rip! Express yourself. Cry. Sing.

Dance. ROAR! This comes highly recommended

by my friend Keith, the Leo. Talk to yourself.

And answer back!

 

Just BE! God is in the details. And so are

You. Take off your watch - or throw it away!

Be still. Be in the moment. Just BE with a

frog, or a dog, or a log!

 

Do the hussle! Exercise. Shake your booty.

Really work up a sweat, or walk in reflection

with no destination in mind. Just do it!

 

Get wet! Soak in the tub, or have a long

shower. Float on a waterbed or in a pool.

Stand under a waterfall. Watch the sunset over

a body of water. Water cleanses much further

than just pore deep.

 

Give thanks! Give thanks for all that you

have.. release your wants. Give thanks to the

Universe..feel it’s love and energy expand

within you. Give thanks for your body.. all the

experiences it has made possible. Be thankful..

and see the world with new eyes.

 

 

LET GO TO GOD

 

Give it up to God, The Universe, Great Spirit,

The Creator - whatever form the divine appears

to you. There is no ending or beginning. Pour

love into God, and find love within your Self.

Take a deep breath. Breathe in God. Breathe

out love. Simple. Deep breath in. Long breath

out. Let it flow. Feel the divine in you and all

around you. Let it all go and be filled. With

nothing and everything. Love is like that. Breath

is like that. Universal. Timeless. If you have

no perception of God in your life, use your

breath. Open yourself to it. Feel it. Find

your true power.

 

LIVING OUR TRUTH

 

Be committed. Be honest. Be patient and kind

to yourself. Sift and sort. Get out of the

driver’s seat. Observe from a distance. Find

what feels right for you. There is no right way

or wrong way. There are no rules. Trust your

Self and follow your intuition. Trust that you

are growing, that you are exactly where you need

to be at this moment. As we shed our fears, it

becomes easier to face our truths. As we face

our truths, without distortion, we find the rest

fades and we are finally left with only one

word. One truth.

 

L OVE

A life with wings. Freedom.

Mighty Fine.

 

 SOURCES..

Books

"Quest", Denise Linn

"Just Listen", Nancy O’Hara

"The Celestine Prophecy", James Redfield

 

Websites

Keith Beasley, http://www.gn.apc.org/tigger/index.htm 

 

Newsgroups & Mail Lists

Michael, alt.healing.reiki

Ed Rawady, alt.spirituality.circle

Kathleen A. McGrane, alt.spirituality.circle

Rev. Isabelle McVay, ReikifirecirlceAll@onelist.com

Julia Rohan, ReikifirecircleAll@onelist.com

 

A Vast Array of Human Kindness

Endless exchanges, through email and newsgroups, which gave birth to many concepts and realizations within myself. Many may find pieces of themselves here :0)

The process continues. Many thanks to all.

 

And Last But Not Least..

The Universal Energy that is within us and all around us.

 

 

 

  This book has the potential to change your life, if your willing to give it a go! I love it.

Haven't read this one yet, but if it's as good as her other one's, it's a must read for anyone *between relationships*. Also available on tape.

Haven't got to this one *yet* either, but looks like a very interesting sharing of Iyanla's life. Also available on tape.

I bought three copies, one for my neice, and one for each of my daughters (2 & 6) Just wanted to make sure I have a copy when they need it! A wonderful gift of self love to share with the young girls in your life.

Another one of my favourite author's and more. One of the few people that I am comfortable calling *His Holiness*, he exudes such warmth, kindness, patience, wisdom and humour. I could go on :0)) Also available on tape.

 

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