MY PROFILE


      This is my first time writing about my self so please be kind :) First, to introduce myself...
      I'm Chen Han Hsing ( Henry) ...   *formal Love* and a big smile !
 
            
                             

My Birthday is June 20th, so that makes me a Gemini.  I am  quiet, but have the force and
magnetism which none can resist. heheheh!! I am clean in thought and purpose, and  suffer
keenly the shattering of an ideal. I am guided by intuition rather than by calculation; I have
strong sympathy with suffering, and can be a powerful comforter to those in trouble.
I am adaptable, versatile, intellectual, witty, logical, busy, spontaneous, flair for writing,
languages, youthful in appearance, strong willed, a little hard headed, *grin*  harmonious
and I have a great belief in my own ability. By nature I am ambitious, poetic, a true romantic,
a visionary and have a keen sense of awareness! I am drawn to music, the beauty of the ocean,
"magic", weeping willow trees, fairies, the moon and stars, art, the study of mysticism, life,
love, relationship, woman, as well as a strong sense of justice !
                                                                         
I live in Toronto, Canada. I was born in Tangra, India. And lived there until I was 15 years
old. I went to school in Grace Ling Liang English School then transferring to Sunshine School in Kurseong and finally to St. Joseph College North Point in Darjeeling. While in Tangra, I spent most of time living either with my grand parent or my parent. I used to have lots of young friend.
And in 1987, I immigrated to Toronto. Attended Langstaff Secondary School and then to Seneca College. I have learn and adapted well to the new environment and their unique cultures. Life as a teenager was full of peer pressure.  Thanks to my family value and strong wills...I was able to
fight off such hard temptations. Only mingled with the good crowd and avoid all possible troubles.  Coming from a good reputed family has given me a sense of confident. My family are most definitely the joy of my life!  I have grown and matured as a young understanding adult who respect others as I would like other's to respect me.
 
                                            

As for my family, My fathers name is Chen Tien Yuan and mother's name is Chen Liu Hsiu Chuan. I have other younger siblings: sister name Alice and the youngest is my brother Michael.  My grand parent are Chen Ki Sen. My father has one older brother, two younger brother and a sister. All three of my uncles and their family lives in Tangra. My aunt and her family lives in Austria.  Our family has a leather manufacturing business.  Being the eldest male in the family also comes with heavy responsibilities. One's has to keep his reputation and carry the family name to the next generation. Being eldest also have to be a role model for our younger brothers and sisters.  I am honored to be able to represent my family.
 
                               
 
About me, hmm.....33 years old...now what else would you like to know. Well, I am 5'6 with short dark brown hair and brown eyes. My personality and character traits; I believe I do have good personality. I do not smoke, drink, gamble, drugs....etc. I am very easy going, friendly,very forgiving, open minded, do not get angry, calm, understanding, patience, caring,knows how to treat a lady, down to earth type of person. Those are certainly my strength and as for weakness....I tends to trust people easily.
 
                      

As far as interests go, I enjoy hanging out with friends, nature walking, sitting in the park, bubble tea, dinning in restaurant, karaoke, dance, movies, music, sports, computer, meeting
new people, spending as much time as possible at the beach, dancing under the moonbeams barefooted on the cool sand, reading history, writing poetry and, taking long walks or rides, being with my close friends, family, exploring new places, expanding my mind (or at least trying too ! :), basically, just taking life as a constant learning experience! I loved to travel all over the place. Been mostly to Caribbean on a cruise. I love doing more of a romantic stuff as romance is part of my life. I love going to places like Niagara Falls, Scarborough Bluff, Center Island, Conservation Parks and visiting new cities. It fascinates me. I love to learn more about other cultures and their lifestyles. One of the places that I love to relax is the park where I can lay down with a friend on the green grass and watch the star as it twinkles high above us. And for the evening, would like to sit by the beach and watch sunset together drinking coconut milk and maybe if you are nice..I might feed you coconut milk with my mouth.:) Want to join me on a Romantic Cruise Dinner where we fine dine on a luxuriest cruise liner while sailing around Lake Ontario under the beautiful night sky of Toronto. ^_^ or would you prefer to have a romantic candle lights dinner at my house with my fireplace burning as we toast each other and with a slow love music playing at our background. We dance to our heart beats and cuddles  beside the fire place as we stare each other in our eyes. and says.... or !!!! or more....you gotta be here to find out.:)  There are a lot more romantic stuff in store for that special girl only. And it could be YoU. Everything is possible!!!heheheheh....   hmmmmmmm.....ok maybe a little more hints:

I am a very romantic and sensual person. Touching, affection, caring and understanding are my best qualities. I am also a very giving person - and I never expect anything in reutrn. Helping people is one of my life's passions. I am a soft-spoken person, and I love whispering sweet words of love.

Being a true romantic, my passions include: candles, purple or red roses, strawberries & chocolate, pearls, soft music, bubble baths, poetry, teddy bears, astrology, and all things purple, red, blue and green. How about a sensitive massage as I stroke your warm and silky skin with my magical warm hands. From the top of your body gently moving down to your feet then to your most sensual parts of your body. Kissing softly with my warm lips and licking all over ur skin. The feelings would be sensational and fulfilling but I'll leave the rest to your wild imagination. Oh!!! Yesss...:)   Please do not under estimate the power of LOVE as they said Love has touched us one time and will last a life time.!! ;)  Still want more...well, you gotta e-mail to find out. :)
 
My career...after leaving college. I worked for South Western Insurance Company as Claims Examiner where I examine and settle large commercial claims for Lloyds of London.  I enjoyed working and have met a lot of wonderful people. I have also learnt to use different strategy to solve different claims. If you want to know more about what I did as claims examiner...go see my Resume. From South Western, I went to Bank of Montreal Telebanking center as Financial Service Manager doing tracking. I was mainly responsible for Relationship sales bookings.  We came close to meeting our target of $700 millions.  The next year telebanking target has grown substantially to $940 millions.  My job is basically looking for money, printing report of senior manager, working with other manager to develop more efficient ways of keeping track of our money. Once again..check my Resume for more information about my job. In telebanking, I did achieve four MVP awards which I was very proud.  Then I moved on to another division of Bank of Montreal MBanx. MBanx is a virtual bank or branch less bank where all transaction are done through telephone or internet.  It's a 365 days and 24 hours a day operation.  My position is MBanx Manager in Lending Administration. My main responsibilities is to document, audit all lending files...making sure all necessary documents are received in order for us to close file. I also have to work with my co-worker to develop better strategy within our department. Within a short time frame I have achieved 12 Peer Recognition award. This position provides great challenges.  MBanx is growing very rapidly and offer many jobs opportunities.

Then I went on to open my own small Dynasty Cafe and Deli business. After 3 and a half years I sold my business. And Currently, I am working in a KFC/Taco Bell 2 in 1 Store as Assistant General Manager.

                                  

My future plan ... is to achieve my ultimate goal and be very successful in life. In order to achieve such dreams. I have to continue with my further studies. Hopefully, when things settles down in my life, I can pursue my studies. One cannot complete their education.  We have to continue to upgrade our self in order to move up the corporate ladder. This will take great determination and perseverance. My most important goal in life is to become a good husband to my wife, a good father to my children and a good son to my parent. For they will be the joy of my life and their happiness would be my happiness. They will always comes first before anything or anyone. My success would be their comfort.  I planned to buy a house so that it will give my family the stable home.  My family will get all the Support, Respect, Care, My shoulder for them to lean on and the Love they richly deserves.  Therefore, I ask the Lord our God's to guide me and give me the strength, knowledge, courage, patience and the understanding to become a good husband, a good father and a good son.

If you want to chat with me...my msn is hsingc@hotmail.com

 
 My favorite quote & inspiration: 
 

    Don't try to reason with your heart
    or feel with your mind
    for just as the heart knows no logic
    the mind can't lead you to your soul

   Love can make you happy but often times it hurts,
   but love is only special when you give it to who its worth.

  Never have regrets, follow your heart.
  Sometimes the heart sees what the eyes can't.

 Kindness in words creates confidence, kindness in  thinking creates profoundness,
 kindness in giving  creates love.

 Love is patient. Love is kind. It does not envy. It does not boast. It is not proud. It is not rude.
 It is not self-seeking. It is not easily angered. It keeps no record of wrong doing. It does not
 delight in evil, but rejoices in the  truth. It always protects, trusts, hopes, perseveres.

No matter how hard things seem, true love will aide you through it.  Love starts from the heart
not the eye.

Marriage is like a golden ring in a chain, whose beginning is a glance and whose ending is in eternity.

Saying I love you isn't hard... but saying I love you and meaning it is hard.

When loving someone...never regret what you do.... you will only regret what you DIDN'T do.

The best and most beautiful things in the world
cannot be seen or even touched.
They must be felt with the heart.

Love is the pasion that we feel inside of our hearts
that we can't hide. We pretend to hide it but it burns us
more and more until the pain grows and grows and it
never ends

Some think that love is all flowers and
good times but I think that love is more than just
that... Love is the bad as well as the better, not
lived alone but a journey together. Something that
only the closest can share, with comunication,
respect, and delicate care.

It may take a lifetime to find true love, but  when you do, you will have an eternity to share it.

You know when you are in love when no
words are needed and the simple conversation of
an hour-long gaze into each other's eyes satisfies
your soul's longings.

This is the true measure of love; when we believe
that we alone can love, that no one could ever have loved
before us, and that no one will ever love in the same way
after us.

Search your heart, search your soul, and when you find me there, you'll search no more.

Faces can deceive what the heart don't know,
But it is the heart within yourself,
That your true feelings show

There are many ways to love someone. Sometimes we want love so much we're not too choosy  about who we love. Other times we make love such a pure and noble thing, no poor human can ever meet our vision. But for the most part, love is a recognition, an opportunity to say,  "There is something about you I cherish." For that, there are many reasons I love you.
 

   If you have comments or suggestions, email me at koolviper@yahoo.com