Eulogizing the living:

Death of a Lebanese family


By Osama El-Sherif

To Muna, an infant, Zeina, 3, Laila, 4, Hassan 5 and their parents , all of whom were killed when an Israeli rocket blew to pieces the ambulance that was carrying them as they were fleeing Israel's "Grapes of Wrath".

FORGIVE US! But then you may not. Why should you? Muna, Zeina, Laila and Hassan will never understand why life ended so suddenly for them on that terrible day. But death, like many of us, was humbled. Death had no cause to celebrate; plucking the lives of this Lebanese family. There was no triumph, only "collateral damage."

Forgive our transgressions; our weakness and our madness. For this is the age of madness; from humans to cows; this is the age when MADeleine Albright can sit and judge and pronounce sentences on every thing Arab; on little Zeina whose face was blown to pieces. Oh God, the pain that flows like a virgin river, the anger, so pristine, that burns like molten iron inside our guts; the despair, the bitterness, the echo of Muna's cries resonates like thunder forever, till Kingdom come and beyond.

Between the fruits of peace and the "grapes of wrath" little children lay gasping for life near a UN checkpoint. They were not the first, nor will they be the last. Israel! Oh Israel: your peace is killing us! Oh Israel whose tyranny is soaked in our blood. Your holocaust is becoming our nightmare; the irony of your history is deafening; your commandments; a mendacious epitaph!

Forgive our shenanigans! The silence with which we greet newspaper headlines every morning, the morbid looks on our faces as we watch the graphically detailed news bulletin every evening and the empty feeling we try to dispel every night as we go to bed. Forgive the peacemakers, the warmongers, those brandishing the sword dripping with blood, the brooms, the helmets, the turbans, the pens, the microphones, the little notebooks, the video cameras. Forgive our barren imaginations as we spit out carefully written words of condemnation or call for restraint or beg the Security Council to utter words of eternal wisdom and make a sense of the killings, the deportations, the demolitions, the mass evacuations, the nagging bombardments, the sanctions, the no fly zones, the no food zones, the no life zones! Is there a zone left for us to scurry to where we can raise our heads and smell the air of liberty and freedom?

Muna might have been hungry that noon day. She probably was suckling at her mother's breast when a hellish fireball burned the skin off her face; it is difficult to say. Does it matter? Zeina and Leila were frightened because the sound of explosions was so close, but Hassan, a young handsome boy was putting up a brave face, like his father. The ambulance siren was ululating like a bereaved mother. There on the ground lay fragments of a Lebanese family--a typical Arab family. The air smelled of burning flesh as Israeli aircraft reported a direct hit. Another Hizbollah target destroyed. Oh yes, the driver was a fanatic, the car was laden with explosives, Muna was to become a woman and then a mother who later gives birth to two boys who join the resistance, blow themselves up and kill tens of Israelis. It was a legitimate target, it could have been one, ten years from now, may be twenty or even thirty years from now, it will remain a target. It was a preemptive strike to kill the fighters who haven't been born yet.

Forgive our sordid lives in this age of helplessness; where poetic justice is merely a dream, where innocence is a legitimate military target and where humanity is a disease. We live our tortured lives to see and see yet again the flesh of babies being spent like empty shells. So do you forgive?